Saturday, November 22, 2014

#something about to happen & it happen

Literally checking the calendar day by day.Can't wait it happen.Now it really happening! Who cares if grammatically error everywhere!! 

Finally on the 25th of October 2014 , my beloved nephew was born at 2,35am with 3.4 kg,He is 50cm tall..luckily indeed 37 weeks of pregnancy...whoa~!! normal birth delivery and it awesome! ! strong sista! Bravo ..haha! to baby keep strong ya!! Now, baby Aryan is 30 days 4.2kg and also 54cm.

He is our 1st nephew in my family.Aryan Veer Zhafran . Alhamdullillah towards Almighty Allah SWT.

As for my sister, congratulation on your new bundle of joy. (Btw, school holidays we will continue to be fulltime babysitter auntie ;p) take cares of our cutiest baby Aryan  and urself! 

To my brother-in-law, Congrates for your new 'prince'.. please spoilt him with all the love in da world than with food (hehe ;p)

Ads : going to a place that I never been b4.. *wink

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Oh! end of 7

I miss those days when being wild and free. STUDY AND JUST HAVE FUN.... Now, totally DIFFERENT. ..Things change, peoples change....Eventhough we are not always seeing each other...doesnt matter. No phone call, no msg ... but she is still my best buddy!!  SOMETIMES life is cruel when mom's throw away ur things but she still a mother to u.. :(

Time flies so fast and I think I just can't breathe well... :( ..Life is hard out there... Worst when others treat u like... OK FINE ... Redha itu ikhlas ...Pasrah itu menyerah...  #stopthinking #JUSTFOLLOWTHERULES

Saturday, June 28, 2014

How I wish

Whispering a wish sometimes can be real.Who ever in this situation maybe can get what they wanted to just from a wish.Everything in this earth can be simple or can be complicated.For moslems, doa or prayer in daily routine makes strengthness inside & outside our mind and soul. Anyway Happy Ramadhan Eid Mubarak... semoga sentiasa ceria, senang hati walau apapun yang berlaku...Pasti ada hikmah ^_^

Friday, June 27, 2014

kit kat #superb best break away

 A walk to break sea well day.. 

Monday, June 23, 2014

#♡♡♡dongsaeng #guess it a song ♡♡♡

To love is nothing.

To be loved is something.


To love and be loved  is everything. 

I am nothing, you're something so let me be your everything.

If you need me, I'm just around. 

I'll be there to listen and I won't demand. 

Just tell me when and where. As long as you need me, as long as I care, as long as I exist, I'll be there.

You can count on me like one, two, three

I'll be there.....;-) 

Saturday, June 21, 2014

#yang sebenarnya #semangat dah hilang #september coming soon

Cerita 6 bulan lepas;

Sebelum ni semua yang dibuat bersemangat.Semua ok , semua2la.. ok ...

Cerita skg ini ;

& finally I was down! Mabe, negativity aura suda ini...

kalau sebelum ni, semua keja ai ble siapkan on time or on exactly perfect time but not anymore. Im mess up all the things! Thinking about this matter,  mabe this is

what we called burnout.

Kadang2 terfikir jg, kenapa Allah SWT letakkan aku ditempat tu... smpi termimpi2 benda yg sama setiap hari.Huh!! Great Job ahead PLZ BE NICE to me...

September  : I can't wait for u to come.Oh! How I wish! I try & looking towards u..when September ends.I will have a slight smile juz for hoping to go..

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

#♡♡♡♡ hate turned in to ♡

If your "hate" turned in to love is just because you are ready to admit that you loved that person for a really long time. I admitted that everything happened because a reason.Sometimes I felt it is good to be single instead of married .Because love can be danger.Once u broke up or something happen in the relationship, u might terribly down... OH! Dang~~ ....Lolx.

I might be someone that important into urlife but I know u always wanted to get me wrong or something  to attract my intention towards u.Lolx..Really unbelieveable!! Some friend told me #lebihbaikmenjauhdarimrndekati #Iforgotwhereiputmyring .. tbc

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Dear Mama

OH! πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’“ u as always and forever.
I know what u did is for my own goods.
Now, im sick becoz of managing my room in a first place
ALL I CAN DO REMOVE unnecessary THINGS EVENTHOUGH ALL OF MY penpals letter blend into the garbage.
Now, I organize all the things ; books, dvd in a proper way.So, dat I can check it  whenever I need it.


Sunday, June 8, 2014

partofmemory #1997-2004

Oh! Its been 10 years it is June 8th ,2014 ... I do care with my career ...but this great yr mabe be my :( experience. So far not so good...  I also care about my surroundings. FAMILY always be no 1. But, fwen oso a part of my life. I havent see my frens for quite along time I guess.Instinct~~ I hope and wish myholiday will extend until end of this yr.

Currently, looking back those pic we were together make me feel naive.I miss all of them. Eventhough, it is just a memory. Sometimes, I think mabe its my fate and good to involved with variety of peoples. Fate because of joined the school and became super senior.haha! #imtherecklessandthegoodoneoso #mabeoftheenvironment
#gudnite #everythingwillbegood
KRS sebb yg lain dh full.Now I remember why we were in KRS.
ALL of my lower & upper six moment

random pic. from primary 6 , f 5 until f 6.

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

#tell me when its over

14th , May 2014.

My face is peeling like nobody's business and it couldn't come at any better time of the year. CAN I HIDE MY FACE like no one notice my existence??? Too many ???? about my personal life.Im straight ok.hahaha! I CAN'T BREATHE. so, I choose to laugh & silence.

But then no way to make an explaination to 'em. Lately, questions about "when" "who" haunted me where ever I go. Wow! Such as no name artist..sparkling with variety Q_Q. How surprise that Im still not sure about this!

Somerset ~I want to run away from all of #ppfft surrounding with the concern peeps! Oh! Are they pay for f.o.c to make my sensational story more interesting. BE PATIENCE my *** out there..


Sunday, May 11, 2014

confession of talk

walk talk...

meet talk...

need talk....

hp talk...

everthing we talk, we decide for it!

Need a walk....

Need a  break..

sleep talk....but ...

Im tired,

I'm tired,

I am tired,

Everything is about academic!

Im busy,

I'm busy,

I am busy,

Everything is about WORLDLINESS! !!

What am I thinking???

Somehow someday we will return to Almighty Allah SWT.

Monday, May 5, 2014

#let it be


The date is confirmed and it is imminent. The unexpected game is now on. I will be going for my 1 years course up in the BEAUFORT DISTRICT. My 2014 is gone just like that. When I complete the course in February 2015 things will never be the same again. I TOTALLY LOST MY MIND because always be alone hence I have too. To soon to predict what THE THINGS can be happen if  IM not allowed to SIT FOR this course. I just want to BE FAIR with THEM (BRITISH COUNCILS, KPM)  because by PUTTING MY EFFORT AND RESPONSIBILITIES for 2 courses undertake ; ELTDP AND PRO ELT. I CHOOSE BOTH for my sake. 

I thought I would be ok because THEY are looking forward for my school accepted the ELTDP (not compulsory) and me for PRO ELT on going at one time , a compulsory course to be attended by optionist teacher and non optionist teacher that COMPULSORY to take this as part of ENGLISH improvement. I called it "BOOBY TRAP" because WHO NOT ACHIEVED C1 for APTIS must sit for B1/B2 PRO-ELT until you pass the target of C1. But C1 also have to take they C1 for PRO-ELT to make them C2 course participants. This tho, SURPRISINGLY US AND ABNORMAL DECISION MAKING , you miss this, means you lost your seniority AND CHANCES. I thought it so. Last time, they went for 1- 3 years after appointed, but now, we have to rush and gone with this courses  after 3 months appointed. It's difficult to carry yourself as course participants when you are already comfortable managing classes 5 days on row.Then, YOU ARE STUCK IN NOWHERE.  YOU AS a new tc must obeyed for the SAKE OF YOUR ON GOING CAREER. (*Capital Let. maybe to show my anger.++++) Things not EASILY be good because tc had to pack up the schedule fot 4 days and no choices. wow!UNPREDICTABLE BECAUSE since the day I took this programme , my PK still not arrange my new schedule to pack up . Maybe, he just busy for other stuffs. I hope my colleague will be fine with that. Especially the DUTY tc, TQ for every1! 

I'm still in the midst of preparation MENTALLY AND PHISCALLY  what result I have to accept. which one more be effective to take : is it both or choose only 1 programme for the whole yrs. Thanks for concern  through whatsapp, WEchat and facebook and even instagram, communication is no longer a barrier, we can easily get infos from friends heretofore.

Well, at the footnote, I try to see this at the positive side because it burden me anyway. What I hate so much is the NATIVE SPEAKER...plz shoooooo away! HOW I wish that you 're not hired for ELTDP....hehehe (I TRY TO BE NICE SO FAR....)

Sunday, April 27, 2014

#Gossip #Jenis-jenis bekas kekasih anda !

Jenis-jenis Bekas Kekasih. Anda Yang Mana?

What type of ex are you?

Pernah tak wonder what type of ex are you? Mesti tak pernah terpikir pun nak kategorikan diri sendiri. Meh I tolong kategorikan. Hahahaha. Idea tercetus bila I perasan yang penyanyi suka buat lagu yang sepesen. Lagu ditulis selalunya menceritakan kisah hidup diorang, jadi I believe that, the lyrics mencerminkan keperibadian dan how they react to situations. So, bekas kekasih yang bagaimanakah anda?

Katy Perry memang suka stok layan perasaan, kisah cinta yang terhalang, bukan kehendak masing-masing untuk berpisah. Kalau buat videoclip mesti hero dia mati. Menggambarkan yang keputusan untuk berpisah bukan di tangan satu sama lain, sangat kasihan. Kita harus kasihankannya sekarang, cepat kasihankan dia, wuuuuu sobs sobs!

Perasan tak kita kadang-kadang suka buat macam ni jugak? Benda bukan apa sangat pun, tapi saja lebih-lebih. I had this conversation once dengan Cristine (Suzzane) dekat set, we were just talking about heartbreaks. "Weh kau selalu tak layan jiwang? Best oh emotional sorang2" "Aku kadang-kadang suka gak, walaupun busy takde masa nak pikir, sengaja peruntukkan satu malam, pasang lagu Ombak Rindu sambil meringkuk atas katil dalam foetal position. Pastu nangis." Hahaha nampak tak? Dalam kepadatan jadual pun sempat lagi wallow in self-pity. It's therapeutic sometimes.

Lagu Katy Perry yang sesuai untuk ex yang jenis kasihankan diri sendiri adalah:

1. Thinking Of You : "You said move on where do I go... I guess second best is all I will know... And yes I do regret, how could I let myself let you go... (pakwe mati pergi perang)".

2. The One That Got Away: "In another life... I would make you stay.. so I don't have to say you were the one that got away... I should've told you what you mean to me cause now I pay the price (pakwe accident kereta)".

Mariah Carey tak pernah lepaskan orang betul-betul. Dia mesti bagi hint yang dia nak lagi kat orang tuh kalau tiba-tiba orang tuh datang balik. Dia cheeky, dia confident, dia perasan hot. Tapi dia memang hot so takpe. I panggil dia atau golongan exes yang macam dia sebagai Hopelessly Hopeful Romantic atau lebih jelas lagi, Berharap Pada Yang Tak Boleh Harap.

Bagi dia; oh aku hot so you're gonna come back to me. Kalau aku let go sekarang pun satu hari kau confirm akan tersedar we belong together because you will always be my baby so don't forget about us. Ha nampak tak, tiga tajuk lagu Mariah carey diletak dalam satu ayat. Nampak tak?!

Lagu Mariah Carey yang sesuai dilayan ex jenis kuat berharap sebab terlalu confident adalah:

1. We Belong Together (jangan lupa videoklip nak kahwin dah dengan orang lain pastu, ex lama datang and bawa anda lari fuyo fuyo konfiden) : "I didn't mean it when I said I didn't love you so... I should've hold on tight I never should've let you go" "Baby there ain't nobody better, we belong together".

2. Always Be My Baby: "Now you wanna be free, so I let you fly, cause I know in my heart, our love will never die" Confident kau I let you fly, pastu orang tuh jumpa orang lain, byebye fly away terus.

3. Don't Forget About Us : "Oh they say that you're in a new relationship, but we both know nothing comes close to what we had" "When it's real, it's forever so don't forget about us". WAH?!

Adele memang tak paham bahasa. Orang dah tinggalkan dia untuk kahwin dengan orang lain, DIA BOLEH DATANG KAT WEDDING ORANG TUH TANPA DIJEMPUT. Merimaskan betullah ex macam nih. Pastu 'never mind I'll find someone like you' apa hal? Kenapa nak carik orang yang lebih kurang camtu jugak?! Cariklah orang yang lebih baik. Sudah sudahlah tuh... jangan ganggu orang yang dah dalam hubungan baru dan indah.

Lagu Adele yang dia boleh nyanyi sama-sama dengan ex jenis tak paham bahasa tak reti-reti nak move on adalah:

1. Someone Like You: "I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited but I, couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it". "I had hoped you see my face and you'd be reminded that for me, it isn't over... (OH GOD WHY)".

2. Rumous Has It: "She, she ain't real.. she ain't gonna be able to love you like I will" "I heard you've been missing me, been telling people things you shouldn't be". Allah...

Bruno Mars kalau kena tinggal dia boleh mati, agama dia boleh hilang terus, pastu dia jadi gila and cakap dengan bulan. Memang kritikal, memang cinta mati betul. Tak elok cinta mati, tapi yang elok pasal dia? Dia tahu dia cinta perempuan itu sedalamnya, dan tak malu nak pujuk rayu sehabis baik. Dia tahu dia takkan dapat macam orang tuh lagi, jadi dia tolak ego jauh-jauh dan buat lagu yang pathetic macam tiga lagu ini...

Lagu Bruno Mars yang menggambarkan dia seorang ex pemujuk tegar (dan patut dipertimbang untuk rujuk semula LOL):

1. It Will Rain: "If you ever leave me baby, leave some morphine at my door, cuz it'll take a whole lot of medication, to realize what we used to have, we don't have it anymore" "There'll be no sunglight if I lose you baby, there'll be no clear skies, if I lose you baby" " Just like the could my eyes will do the same, if you walk away, everyday it will rain..."

2. Talking to the Moon: "I know you're somewhere out there, somewhere far away, I want you back.." "They don't understand, you're all I have" "The night when the stars light up my room, I sit by myself, talking to the moon, tryna get to you..." (dah gila).

3. When I Was Your Man: "I should've brought you flowers, and held your hands, should've given you all my hours, when I had the chance, take you to every parties, cuz I remember how much you loved to dance, now my baby is dancing, but she's dancing with another man". Lagu penyesalan yang terbaik dan tak ego dan padan muka diri sendiri.

Ini jenis ex yang ; dia sayang dan cinta tapi dia tak buat apa-apa. Dia harap the universe will somehow work its magic untuk satukan diorang kembali tapi dia lupa tawakal dan doa saja tak ke mana tanpa usaha. Dia tak faham konsep yang dialah membentuk takdir yang telah tertulis.

Orang yang sadis, dia tahu apa dia nak dalam hidup, tapi takde daya. Cubalah dengar The Script nih, setakat duduk tunggu satu tempat, mengharapkan kekasih tuh cari dia. Pastu kecewa sangat, pergi hang out dengan kawan-kawan, dah mabuk BARU nak call balik orang tuh. Pastu jerit-jerit nama orang tuh satu bandar... Okaaay.

Lagu The Script yang menggambarkan golongan ini:

1. The Man Who Can't Be Moved:"Going back to the corner where I first saw you, gonna camp in my sleeping back, I'm not gonna move" "One day if you wake up and find that you're missing me, and your heart starts to wonder where in the earth I could be, I'm thinking maybe you'd come back here"

2.Nothing: "Am I better off dead, am I better off a quitter?" (OH MY GOD THIS PEMALAS DUDE).

Akhir sekali adalah ex yang sedih dan kecewa, tapi sentiasa positif dan juga ceria. Bagi dia; yes I am sad we planned so much but have to let it all go. But if you're not going to work for it, I am not going to work for it. Satu hari dia percaya, orang yang betul akan mai, dan takpe, dia akan tunggu. Ex macam Fergie nih memang annoying. Dia boleh kawal perasaan dia, bila dia cinta, dia cinta sangat, tapi bila dia yakinkan diri untuk tak cinta, dia mampu untuk tak cinta.

Bak kata Fergie:

1. Clumsy: "I like serious relationships" "Every time a boyfriend and I break up, my world is crushed and I am all alone........ (and then) the love bug crawls right back up, and I'm back!"

Sumber :  #haniszalika #

Friday, April 25, 2014

Barack Obama ke Malaysia

KUALA LUMPUR: Presiden Amerika Syarikat Barack Obama sedang melakulan lawatan ke empat negara Asia iaitu Jepun, Korea Selatan, Filipina dan Malaysia.

Beliau dijadulkan tiba di Malaysia pada hari Sabtu untuk lawatan tiga hari.

Lawatan ini adalah yang pertama oleh seorang Presiden Amerika yang memegang jawatan, dalam tempoh 48 tahun selepas lawatan Presiden Lyndon B. Johnson, pada 1966.

Menteri Luar Datuk Seri Anifah Aman menarik perhatian kepada hubungan baik antara Perdana Menteri Datuk Seri Najib Tun Razak dan presiden Amerika ke-44 itu.

"Ini akan memastikan perbincangan dua hala berkaitan ekonomi, keselamatan dan hubungan rakyat kepada rakyat adalah terbuka, konstruktif dan produktif sambil kita meneliti cara untuk meningkatkan hubungan dua hala kepada suatu perkongsian komprehensif," katanya.

Read more at:

Thursday, April 24, 2014

theme #Aduh

Berdiri Disebalik Awan Hitan Yang Berkepulan
Tiada Pandangan Yang Dapat Ku Perlihatkan
Hanya Wajah Yang Selalu Ada Di Ruang Mata Ini
Yang Sudah Terlalu Jemu Dari Pandangan

Sudah Tiba Masanya Ku Harus Berdiri Tanpamu
Bergantikan Dengan Awan Putih Yang Memutih
Bila Aku Sudah Tiada Baru Kau Kan Merasai
Bagaimana Oh.. Rasanya Kehilangan

Aduh Sayang.. Aduh Kasih
Aku Dah Bosan Dengan Caramu

Aduh Usah.. Aduh Engkau
Cuba Kembali Pada Diriku

Kerna Aku Dah Tahu Apa Yang Kau Lakukan
Kerna Aku Tahu Kita Tak Sehaluan

Walaupu Ku Tahu Kan Separuh Mati Merindui Kamu
Namun Ku Harus Cuba Tuk Melupakan Dia
Tangani Semua Ini Dengan Akal Fikiranku Biar Engkau Kan Tahu
Ku Tak Cintamu

Aduh Sayang.. Aduh Kasih
Aku dah Bosan Dengan Caramu

Aduh Usah.. Aduh Engkau
Cuba Kembali Pada Diriku

Aduh Sayang.. Aduh Kasih
Aku Dah Bosan Dengan Caramu

Aduh Usah.. Aduh Engkau
Cuba kembali Pada Diriku

Kerna Aku Tahu Apa Yang Kau Lakukan
Kerna Aku tahu Kita Tak Sehaluan

Walaupun Ku Tahu Kan separauh Mati Merindui Kamu
Namun Ku Harus Cuba Tuk Melupakan Dia
Tangani Semua Ini Dengan Akal Fikiran Biar Engkau Kan Tahu

Ku Tak Cintamu
Ku Tak Cinta..

Wednesday, April 23, 2014


Rasa sangat kecewa.
Semua ni hanya di dunia.Anggap ianya sementara.Now, I realized that my feeling and emotion cannot be control.So, I better keep quiet before my feeling hurt more.In this situation, I dont want to burden anyone.But, im feeling lost.NO ONE CAN UNDERSTAND WHAT I HAVE BEEN THROUGH ALL THIS YEAR.Struggling with my emotion.*sigh

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Langkawi Trip 17 April 2014 until 20 April 2014

Tamat 3h2m Cuti2 Langkawi ^_^

1st Day
- Tiba di Langkawi
- Makam Mahsuri
- Beras Terbakar
- Check in @Kedawang
- Shopping @Pekan Kuah
- Dataran Lang ( view siang )
- Lagenda Langkawi
-Underwater Langkawi
- Jln2 @Pantai Cenang ( mlm )

2nd Day
- Telaga Harbour
- Oriental Village ( cable car & 6D )
- Telaga Tujuh
- Taman Buaya
- Taman Awam Teluk Yu
- Karangkraf Langkawi
- Galeri Perdana
- Wildlife Birds Park
- Laman Nusantara
- Laman Padi
- Sunset @Pantai Cenang
- Mkn @Hj.Ramli
- Pasar Malam @Kuah
- Dataran Lang ( view mlm )

Last Day
-checkout from Dawn Chalet
- Pantai Pasir Hitam
- Ayer Hangat Village
- Pantai Tg. Rhu
- Laksa Pulau @Pantai Airport
- balik KL
- balik KK...situasi flight delayed.problem MH192 tayar rosak.sabar ja la....flight balik stuck dalam kapal sehingga 2 jam..yg penting selamat... haihh! selamat bekerja

Monday, April 21, 2014


Resources :

Malaysia Airlines (MAS)’s flight, MH192 has landed safely in Kuala Lumpur (KUL) international airport (KLIA) after turning back due to the malfunction of its landing gear.
(MAS) had earlier posted in its official Twitter account,: “Flight MH192 that departed from KUL at 10.09pm bound for Bangalore has made an air turn-back towards KUL. More details to follow.”
malaysia airlines MH192
No further information was given till a media release was released half an hour later on its facebook account ,
“Sepang, 21 April 2014: Malaysia Airlines confirms that flight MH192 that departed from Kuala Lumpur International Airport (KLIA) at 10.09pm bound for Bangalore has made an air turn back towards Kuala Lumpur. The aircraft’s right-hand landing gear malfunctioned upon takeoff and is expected to make an emergency landing at KLIA at around 2.00am, today.
Flight MH192, operated on the B737-800 aircraft, was scheduled to arrive in Bangalore at 11.35pm the same day. The flight was carrying a total number of 166 people on board which include 159 passengers and 07 crew members.
Malaysia Airlines is currently working with the Airport Fire Rescue Services (AFRS) in anticipation of the landing.
The airline will provide regular updates on the situation.”
At around 2.10am, MAS released another twitter post which gave relief to everyone waiting for the updates. The plane had landed safety at Kuala Lumpur Airport at 1.56am.
malaysia airlines MH192_2

Photo of scraps of MH192 tyre salvaged.

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

feeling lost

“Being alone never felt right.  Sometimes it felt good, but it never felt right.”
―Charles Bukowski

“This morning I felt lost and alone as I was driving to PKG. It is just like Michael Jackson song ‘You Are Not Alone' song.

I am struggle with my feeling “lost and alone” in life.  Which got me thinking…

Why do people have to feel this way?  What’s the point of it all?  Millions of people in this world, all of them craving connection, and looking for specific experiences and people to satisfy them, yet inadvertently isolating themselves in the process.  Why?  Was the planet put here just to nourish our loneliness?

The more I’ve experienced and explored my own feelings of uncertainty and loneliness, the more I’ve realized how necessary these feelings are.  It’s good for us to spend time exploring unknowns, alone.  It gives us an opportunity to discover who we really are and what life is all about.

Here are some things to keep in mind when you feel lost and alone:

1.  You are not alone in being alone.

So many of us are fighting the same exact battle alongside you.  We are all in this together.  So no matter how embarrassed or pathetic you feel about your own situation, know that there are others out there experiencing the same emotions.  When you hear yourself say, “I am all alone,” it’s just your worried mind trying to sell you a lie.  There’s always someone who can relate to you.  Perhaps you can’t immediately talk to them, but they are out there, and that’s all you need to know right now.

2.  Sometimes when you’re lonely, you need to be alone.

Sometimes you need to be alone, not to be lonely, but to enjoy a little free time just being yourself and finding your way.  In other words, the moments you feel lonely are the moments you may most need to be by yourself.  This is one of life’s cruelest ironies.

We need solitude, because when we’re alone we’re detached from obligations, we don’t need to put on a show, and we can hear our own thoughts and feel what our intuition is telling us.  And the truth is, throughout your life there will be times when the world gets real quiet and the only thing left is the beat of your own heart.  So you’d better learn the sound of it, otherwise you’ll never understand what it’s telling you.  (ReadQuiet: The Power of Introverts.)

3.  You have to be a little lost first to find what you’re looking for.

Not until you are lost in this world can you begin to find your best path.  Realizing you are lost is the first step to living the life you want.  The second step is leaving the life you don’t want.  Making a big life change is pretty scary.  But you know what’s even scarier?  Regret.

I can tell you from my own life experience that I’ve found love, lost it, found it, lost it and then I found it once again.  But each time what I found was more incredible than the last.  So remember that everyone suffers in life at some point.  Everyone feels lost sometimes.  The key is using your experiences to grow.  When you apply what you’re learning to your future choices and actions, you move forward not backward.  You become stronger and wiser.  It’s not easy, but it’s worth it in the end.

4.  It’s all about accepting the reality of what is.

You cannot find peace by avoiding life.  Life spins with unexpected changes; so instead of avoiding it, take every change and experience as a challenge for growth.  Either it will give you what you want or it will teach you what the next step is.  And remember, finding peace in life does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, no challenges, and no hard work.  It means to be in the midst of those things while remaining calm in your heart.

Honestly, life is too short to spend at war with yourself.  The biggest disappointments in our lives are often the result of misplaced expectations.  Letting go of needless expectations is your first step to happiness.  Come from a mindset of peace and acceptance, and you can deal with almost anything and grow beyond it.

5.  In every situation, YOU choose your attitude.

Be determined to be positive.  Understand that the greater part of your misery or unhappiness is determined not by your circumstances, but by your attitude.  A happy person is not a person who’s always in a good situation, but rather a person who always has a good attitude in every situation.  So smile at those who often try to begrudge or hurt you; show them what’s missing in their life and what they can’t take away from you.  Doing so doesn’t mean forgetting or giving in, it means you choose happiness over hurt.  (Read Buddha’s Brain.)

6.  Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being lonely does not mean you are alone.

The trouble is not always in being alone; it’s being lonely in the presence of others.  One can be lonely in the midst of a crowd.  Wouldn’t you agree?  So keep this in mind and choose your relationships wisely.  It’s always better to be alone than to be in bad company.  And when you do decide to come back for someone, do so because you’re truly better off with this person.  Don’t do it just for the sake not being alone.

7.  Everyone you care about does NOT need to support your decisions.

Friends and family won’t always support your goals, but you must pursue them anyway.  Follow your intuition.  Following your intuition means doing what feels right, even if it doesn’t look or sound right to others.  Only time will tell, but our human instincts are rarely wrong.  Even if things don’t turn out as you anticipated, at least you won’t have to spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been.  So don’t worry about what everyone else thinks; just keep living and speaking your truth.

Ultimately, you know you’re on the right track in life when you become uninterested in looking back, and eager to take the next step, regardless of what anyone else thinks.

8.  You are not who you used to be, and that’s OK.

You’ve been hurt; you’ve gone through numerous ups and downs that have made you who you are today.  Over the years, so many things have happened – things that have changed your perspective, taught you lessons, and forced your spirit to grow.  As time passes, nobody stays the same, but some people will still tell you that you have changed.  Respond to them by saying, “Of course I’ve changed.  That’s what life is all about.  I’m still the same human being, just a little stronger now than I ever was before.”

9.  The best you can do changes from day to day.

Always do your best.  And realize that “your best” is going to change repeatedly.  For instance, it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick.

Under any circumstance, simply do your best in the present moment and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.  And remember that no matter what’s happening, you can efficiently fight the battles of just today.  It’s only when you add the battles of those two abysmal eternities, yesterday and tomorrow, that life gets overwhelmingly complicated.  It’s necessary, therefore, to let yourself live just one day at a time – just today – just right here, right now.  And do the best you can in it.  (Angel and I discuss this in more detail in the “Self_love” chapter of 1,000 Little Things Happy, Successful People Do Differently

10.  It all matters in the end – every step, every regret, every smile, and every struggle.

The seemingly useless happenings add up to something.  The minimum wage job you had in high school.  The evenings you spent socializing with colleagues you never see anymore.  The hours you spent writing thoughts on a personal blog that no one reads.  Contemplations about elaborate future plans that never came to be.  All those lonely nights spent reading novels and news columns and comics strips and fashion magazines and questioning your own principles on life and sex and religion and whether or not you’re good enough just the way you are.  All of this has strengthened you.  All of this has led you to every success you’ve ever had.  All of this has made you who you are today.

The floor is yours…

What helps you stay positive when you feel lost and alone?  What’s something encouraging you try to keep in mind when you’re up against lots of uncertainty?  Leave a comment below and share your thoughts.

Friday, March 21, 2014

Keputusan SPM 2013

Terkini!!! Semakan Keputusan SPM 2013/2014 Secara Online Dan SMS, Inilah Yang Dinanti2.. Jom Terjah!!!

 | Tidak kurang 1 bulan setengah lagi  secara rasminya bakal diumumkan. Bagi calon-calon yang menduduki peperiksaan SPM 2013 sudah pasti tidak sabar lagi.Tarikh semak Keputusan SPM 2013 akan diumumkan kemudian berkemungkinan pada 21 March 2014 . Para pelajar dan Ibu bapa di sarankan agar sentiasa dari masa ke semasa mengikuti laman ini untuk mendapatkan maklumat terkini yang akan diupdate.

Cara Semakan Keputusan SPM 2013 melalui Online

Sistem Analisis Peperiksaan Sekolah (SAPS) adalah perkhidmatan percuma diperkenalkan oleh Kementerian Pelajaran Malaysia kepada ibu bapa / penjaga untuk menyemak dan memudahkan untuk mengetahui keputusan peperiksaan secara online.Dibawah cara-cara:

1) Semakan secara online :

Klik siniSistem Analisis Peperiksaan Sekolah (SAPS)
2) Masukkan Nombor Kad Pengenalan atau Sijil Surat Beranak

3) Pilih Sekolah Rendah atau Sekolah Menengah

4) klik butang Semak Laporan.

Cara Semakan Keputusan SPM 2013 melalui sms

Anda jugak boleh semakan keputusan. Langkah-langkahnya :

- Semakan SMS: Taip SPM [No KP] [angka giliran] dan hantar ke 15888
- Contoh: SPM 950909125151 BC001A040 hantar ke 15888